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Reclaiming Control of Your Life and Happiness

Enlightening and Empowering Psychotherapy

I would be happy to meet with you to help you work toward building a happier, more authentic life.

I believe that therapy can be helpful for all people, but, in particular, when you find that your normal ways of coping with life do not seem to be working for you anymore. My aim is to help you identify and confront issues that are affecting your quality of life to help you discover how to find greater peace and no longer feel held back by your problems.

I have been trained in many theories and now integrate a range of perspective and techniques into my approach to help you get the most benefit out of therapy. I use a combination of psychodynamic, cognitive-behavioral, emotion-focused, internal family systems, ACT, multicultural, feminist, and developmental theories which helps me to develop a holistic, deeper understanding of my clients’ many layers and identities.

My approach to therapy is nonjudgmental and empowering. I aim to provide a safe, confidential space to help you deepen your self-understanding, change problematic patterns, and enhance self-esteem. I am also multiculturally sensitive to the ways in which oppression and marginalization can interact with psychological wellbeing, and I welcome clients from diverse backgrounds and identities. Around half my caseload at any time are people of color with many coming from countries outside of the USA. I frequently suggest readings or particular tasks to do between sessions in order to help you transfer the work outside of therapy, and I am not afraid to challenge you, give “tough love,” or provide direct feedback to help you grow.

Specialty Areas of Focus:

Relationship Issues

Are you struggling in your romantic relationship but either you or your partner are not ready for couples therapy? Do you feel stuck in your relationship and need someone to help you slow down to better understand the dynamics and where to go next? Do you struggle to find success in love or develop a deeper connection in romance? My training and experience working with couples has given me unique perspectives around relationship dynamics that are not just helpful when I work with couples but equally very beneficial when I am working with individual clients struggling with love.

Together, we can help you understand where you get stuck in love, and I can provide a framework for you with understanding where most couples get stuck and what leads to lasting success in love. I can help you understand patterns in your relationship through a new lens and give you specific communication strategies that help to minimize conflict and promote intimacy. We can also help you work on issues you may have related to intimacy and vulnerability to help you develop a deeper emotional connection with your partner. I am also very comfortable talking about sex and sexual problems that can come up in relationships (straight or gay) and have helped clients navigate a variety of sexual concerns. This includes, and is not limited to, navigating non-monogamy, kink/sexual fetishes, polyamory, and performance anxiety.

Anxiety / Depression

Anxiety and sadness are normal, healthy emotions that we will all face as a part of life. They can be helpful messages from our body that we can learn to listen to in order to guide us in the world. But sometimes these emotions can begin to significantly impact our functioning, feel disproportionate to our stressor, make us feel paralyzed, and hold us back in life. When it comes to mood related issues like this, I take a holistic approach in gathering careful assessment around the history of your symptoms as well as assess for various biological factors that may be influencing them, including medical problems, medications, sleep issues, nutrition factors, substance use practices, and lifestyle choices. 

Once we have a more accurate understanding of what may be driving and maintaining your symptoms, I use a variety of techniques to help you feel less paralyzed by your mood states. This process often includes identifying things that are not working in your life that need to change, modifying lifestyle choices, reworking negative thoughts connected to anxiety or depressive states, working toward behavioral changes to face and overcome some of your fears, and learning tools to help you cope with these mood states to feel less powerless. 

My background as a mental health focused yoga teacher has also given me a deep understanding of the biological nature of the body and ways that our brain and nervous system interact with one another. I have learned how we can influence our mood states through directly impacting our nervous system and biology using various breathing and meditation techniques. I can help you gain an understanding of the ways your nervous system works and tools to influence it, which can be an empowering and game changing experience for learning how to gain control over anxiety and depression throughout your life, using just your body all on its own.

Self-Esteem and Self-Love

Our experiences in childhood help shape our feelings of self-worth and beliefs about ourselves. As a child, I was an easy target for bullying and I internalized these negative experiences and turned against myself. After trying various avenues to develop my own self-love, what finally made the difference for me was inner child work. I am trained in various inner child techniques, including Internal Family Systems Therapy, which I find are especially effective with modifying self-esteem struggles. Together, we will help you revisit the moments when you turned against yourself and help you work to heal the relationship you have with yourself through experiential techniques you will learn from me that you can apply in your daily life to develop more self-love, self-compassion, and self-acceptance.

Navigating Change and Transition

One of the joys and stresses of life is that it is continually changing. And we are constantly evolving. I see periods of transition as especially important times to reconnect with ourselves to learn from our life experiences and feel more grounded in the next directions we take in our lives. I have had to start over and shift directions many times in my life and have found that intentional self-reflection during these times makes all the difference in moving you forward in ways that will be fulfilling.

In this sense, I view transitional times as opportunities to reevaluate your life path, and I enjoy helping you discover what new version of yourself will bring you more fulfillment as well as how to overcome the obstacles to you achieving your full potential. Together, we will help you find more life satisfaction as you solidify your values, learn lessons from past hardships, and work to build the life you want.

Finding Purpose, Joy, and Fulfillment

I spent the majority of my thirties wrestling with existential angst. I had finally finished graduate school, had a great job, and had finally “made it.” And I’ve noticed the same type of angst can arise for many people around this same time in their lives. For so much of our early lives, we are climbing up the next ladder rung in terms of education and dating to get to that final last step of our happily ever after when we have a stable career, a marriage, a family, and that white picket fence. But what happens if you get there and find that something just feels like it’s missing? Or what if you find that the path that society has laid out for us is not one that you actually want?

I’ve spent a lot of time studying these concepts and doing my own personal work to get to a place of finding more fulfillment, joy, purpose, and contentment in my life. So I invite anyone struggling with these sometimes lonely questions to reach out to me. Together, we will help you hone in on the clues that have been present throughout your life pointing you in the direction of greater joy and help you rediscover yourself in a more authentic way, one that may involve de-conditioning yourself from societal, familial, or cultural messages you may have received that could feel misguided for you. Once we’ve untangled what messages are your own versus “someone else’s,” we’ll help you reexamine your values, priorities, and ways of being in the world to lead you to energizing new places. 

I’ve also worked often with college students trying to figure out their majors. I stumbled upon psychology only after changing my major about 4 or 5 times in college, so I get it! Finally giving myself permission to explore the subjects that naturally fed my intellectual hunger instead of doing what was “safe” or most impressive or what I thought would please others around me made a big difference for me. I am glad I followed my intuition as it led me down a path to a fulfilling career where I remain endlessly curious. If you need guidance around how to find something similar in yourself, please reach out.

LGBTQ Issues

As a queer person myself, I have experienced personally the long list of challenges that queer people have to overcome as they navigate the world. Struggles that most of us have had absolutely no guidance around and many that we didn’t even know we would have to overcome until they showed up for us. Things like learning how to love yourself when internalized homophobia, bullying, and heterocentric messages from religions and society try to teach you that you are disgusting, morally wrong, and have no place in the world. Or how to find peace living with the everyday minority stress of being a queer person and “othered” in the world; learning how to be vulnerable and authentic in order to build intimacy in your relationships after having spent years hiding your true self in the closet to avoid rejection; or how to decondition yourself from heterocentric biases around what a valuable life looks like. 

If you are struggling with any of these issues, let me help. I believe one of the biggest life tasks for anyone in the queer community is learning how to be authentic in the world and find their true, authentic self after having lived for a period in the closet with a false self you adopted as a survival mechanism to be accepted in the world. But the good news is that there are people in the world who will love and value you for exactly who you are! Together, we can help you learn how to live more authentically in the world to no longer feel you have to hide yourself or only let people see certain sides of you. 

I can help with any stage of the LGBTQ experience, including questioning your sexual orientation or gender identity, coming out issues, navigating family acceptance, finding your true authentic self, building self-worth, reducing feelings of abnormality and inferiority, healing from bullying/trauma/marginalized stress from being othered in the world, navigating gender transition, resolving religious conflicts, working to build vulnerability and emotional intimacy, navigating platonic friendships in the queer community, overcoming issues of perfectionism and control, exploring parenting, navigating sexual concerns and challenges, and feeling disconnected from the queer community and like you don’t belong anywhere. 

Additional Areas of Focus:

  • Family of Origin Concerns
  • Grief/Loss
  • Sexual Concerns
  • Interpersonal Struggles / Communication Skills
  • Identity / Multicultural Concerns
  • Adult Children from Substance Abuse Households/Parents
  • Boundary Setting Concerns and Assertiveness Training
  • ADHD
  • Burnout / Workaholism
  • Men’s Issues
  • Coping Skills
  • Intimate Partner Violence
  • Trauma / PTSD Concerns
  • Anger Management
  • College / Graduate Student Stressors
  • Academic Concerns
  • Traumatic Brain Injury